Monday, August 24, 2009

more PEI pics


Nathan at Brackley Beach


The kids at Cabot Beach



Cute, downtown Charlottetown from Victoria Park Boardwalk




Wet kids at the waterpark in Charlottetown





Emma at Brackley Beach

Pics from PEI


Our first view of Cabot Beach





6 Dunkirk Street, where I lived in grade 3




Nathan gathering seaweed

PEI

We had a wonderful, whirlwind trip to PEI! We cut it short in order to avoid camping in the wrath of Hurricane Bill (through which we hunkered down yesterday, here at the yellow house.
We weren't hit as hard as other parts of NS and PEI but did get lots of heavy rain. Because the storm peaked at high tide the waves were spectacular and the cliffs suffered some serious erosion).

Being on PEI brought back a flood of sense memories from when my family lived in Charlottetown in 1982-83. Everywhere felt like home! I swelled with something close to relief (mixed with adrenaline and happiness) when I stepped out onto the beautiful beaches. The way the sand and the dune grass and the water and the sky make for a wide open vista - how wonderful. The island really got into my bones in that grade 3 year! It was very exciting to see Emma and Nathan play and swim and play and swim just as Kath and I must have 30 years ago.

We camped at Cabot Beach provincial park on the west-central northshore (if that makes any sense). It was just what the doctor ordered - peaceful and simple, easy and with a brilliant beach.
We also enjoyed Brackley Beach in the National Park a bit further east. We had a few funny (and yummy) meals at a restaurant in North Rustico. PEI is friendly and rural and their restaurants have a simple charm - homemade rolls before your delicious fish and chips, unassuming decor, no background music, things like that.

It was so neat to see 6 Dunkirk Street, where we lived all those years ago. The house looked just the same (but with a different colour of paint). The school Kath and I went to is just two doors down, and the ocean is walking distance away. Being there affirmed all the images I've carried around as memory for 30 years. Charlottetown is a cute city - very small, but it seemed to be bustling.

On our return journey, before crossing over the impressive Confderation Bridge, we made the obligatory stop to buy local PEI potatoes from a farmer's roadside stand. Ah, PEI! I plan to take the kids back in September when we can perhaps spend a few more days. We need to visit Green Gables. We are reading the book together right now and Emma is loving it, but on this trip we were so focused on beach time that we only just drove by the buildings.

It is still raining today, though nothing like yesterday. Chris has taken the kids down the Valley to Upper Clements Park, an amusement park which they earned free tickets to by participating in the Wolfville Library summer reading program. I am enjoying a quiet day at the yellow house. In a while I might head out to do a 16 km training run (yikes- the half marathon is less than 2 months away!).
Juleta

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Our Nova Scotia house - water, wildflowers and garden







Today I went swimming in the ocean channel. It wasn't too cold after I got in but, boy was it freezing when I was getting in! I found more than ten moonstone sea shells. They have been brought in by the fishermen in their nets and then been thrown overboard at the dock.
We walk up the channel at low-tide from Grandma's house and then there is a big three-way crossing with sharp grass everywhere else. You turn right and there you are at the big boat dock.

There are wild tiger lilies growing here along with daisies, and brown-eyed susans. We have our own garden and there are peas, beans, squash, tomatoes, broccoli and carrots in it. So far we have eaten our own broccoli and lots of peas. We went to a u-pick raspberry farm and we got two overflowing buckets. They were really good and we ate them with sugar and cream.

I am glad to finally be in Nova Scotia.

Emma



Nathan in Nova Scotia

Here are some things that we can do here but not in Calgary:


  • swimming in the ocean.

  • going to the beach.

  • shopping at the outside Saturday Farmer's Market.

  • walk to Paddy's island.

  • seeing Grandma Joan

  • getting $2 ice cream cones at Kingsport

  • go swimming in a lake

Here are some things I do here that I also do in Calgary:



  • getting lots of books from the library

  • wake up and get out of bed first

  • play with Emma

Here are some things I only do in Calgary:



  • play with my friends

  • go to church

  • ride my scooter

This is Nathan signing off!


Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Full Moon Musings

Hi. Juleta here.


This evening I went for a nice run down Pereau Road and then up a bit of Hubbard Mountain Road. It was a bit too humid for my prairie bones, so I was happy to stop and walk a bit when I reached my turn around point at the old Pereaux (when did the word lose its 'x' around here, I am left wondering...)cemetery. I love small, old (and this one goes back to 1775!), rural cemeteries. They are eloquent in what they say about community and belonging. There are stories on headstones that tell of immigrants from Europe who lived a hard, farming life and died in middle age. Other stories of babies or young adults who died too soon, leaving me wondering how. There's the old story of class disntinction played out on grave markers ranging from elaborate to simple and small, to not there at all. There are the names of wives (mostly wives) with their birth date inscribed, but no death date yet; the ongoing stories of their widowhood. And stories of grieving written in plastic flowers and in the inscriptions themselves - all the variations of "Gone but not forgotten". So many people, so many lives, all there in such an articulate quiet.


These small cemetaries are so much the same wherever you go. They always have an honest beauty about them. And they make me want to be from a small community, so that I'd know my body, after death, would find a home in this kind of simple and familiar soil. The cemetery would be small enough to take in from one vantage point, located not too near a busy road, there would be birds in the trees, and some neighbour the one who volunteers to mow the grass (even if it's not every week, or even every month!).


I, of course, don't live in such a place. And at the moment, after six months of travel (even with nearly two months in and around Calgary), I feel quite removed from my home and my community.


In so many ways travel is the ultimate in selfishness. I think about how it requires great resources (of fuel - gasoline, or jet or otherwise, as well as of personal energy), and how it removes the traveler from their home community where the most opportunities for interconnectedness or generosity lie. I have been contemplating the luxury and the selfishness of this year.


But I have also been examining the benefits we are all gaining from this trip. The many ways the four of us are closer than we were when we left Calgary in January; the relaxed good cheer we have for each other most of the time now. The rich, rich store of memories we are all building - some of them sensory (the smell of a BC forest in the rain, the feel of a wet sleeping bag, the taste of freshly caught fish, the experience of feeling the water of an outgoing tide become slack around your ankles and then the sensation of it turning and moving the other way!), some of them intelletual (all we learned about the life-cycles of salmon, the ecologies of Canada, the history of Old Quebec, the travel routes of the voyageurs, how to close a real estate deal while driving on the Trans-Canada), some of them interpersonal (how wonderful it is to share life with friends and family in THEIR places - Lisa and Chase in Alert Bay, the Hagreen-Leblonds in Victoria, Jeff and Yin and Awen, and Ken in Vancouver, Joan and David out here).


Mostly for me, the biggest opportunity for learning is coming through the chance to homeschool (or 'unschool') with Emma and Nathan. This primarily means learning to calm my mind and open myself to a gentle flow of living. To let go of worry and doubt. To enjoy!


Lately the things I've been enjoying most are:





  • The taste of fresh strawberries, raspberries and garden peas.


  • Nathan's made-up riddles and puns.


  • Emma's deep calm. And the way she gallops down the long beach.


  • Chris' face. And hands. And mind.


  • Joan's generosity - the windows in the bedroom of her yellow house, her offers to babysit, her laughter, her curried maple chicken....


  • David's piratey and gardeny ways with the kids.


  • Bald eagles as they fly over the ocean.


  • Nova Scotia's incredible recycling and composting programs.


  • Gaspereau Press books - they are printed and bound so artfully.


  • Wading and swimming in Lumsden Pond.


  • Filling water bottles at the Gaspereau spring.


  • Running. Running fast. Running far. Running even when it's HOT and I have to go slow and not far.


  • Thinking about my Dad, my Mom, my sister, my Grandma Severson, Heidi, Liz, Robyn, Ken, Vara and Lisa. Although too much of this makes me a bit heartsick and then I stop enjoying myself...


  • Looking at pictures from the past six months. Especially the ones from Tofino, Writing-on-Stone, Alert Bay, and from our drive across the country.

  • The glitter of full-moon moonlight on the water


  • Falling asleep with a coolish breeze coming in the window, the way it brings the sound of that little waterfall across the road.



Life lived like a prayer of sensuality and gladness. That's what I'd like mine to be.




J.





The sky over Nelson Lake, Saskatchewan. July 11, '09